When it's about expressing your feelings and your needs it's all about using your own body language as a sign to convey it to the other person in front of you. And if someone fails to notice our body language be it when we were toddlers or even as adults we must know that something has gone wrong if we haven't been able to convey it all.
You must have heard a famous phrase that says 'if you're not using it you're losing it' Somewhat makes sense isn't it? Well its very much important to communicate in every aspect and every form. Be it your verbal communication or be it your body language it's all a detrimental thing.
There are not one but many types of body languages. The two most common ones that are easy to understand are the 'greeting' and the 'romantic' body language. More of the forms are like those of the following:- - Emotional - Bored - Attentive - Deceptive - Evaluating - Defensive - Dominating - Open - Aggressive - Submissive - Ready - Attentive - Relaxed And a lot more that are there! In this book we will give you the perfect insights of the various body languages that you need to know.
You can see each and every category properly and know how to interpret the different signs in terms of the body language that someone is trying to convey to you. So lets get started and explore some more of the body language signals.
The Aggressive Body Language
When you are going to know that a body language is about being aggressive it's not something when you see someone is punching in the face.
There are lot other ways to be a patient receiver and save yourself from any sort of a physical harm that can be done to you by the other person. Since our childhood we have been always taught that the physicals confrontations are never going to be of any use and nor will it serve either of us any good.
The following ways can help you know the aggressive type of body language. - Facial expressions that have redness
- frowning nose
- clinched jaws
- pursed lips
- head jerks
- squints
- Stare downs and a lot more. - Another important trait to understand the aggressiveness is when someone crosses your personal boundary space - Next is the physical aggressive body indicator that can be judged by the gesture of the hands.
- Another form of aggression is like that of slamming the door or the wall. In short we call it the mock attacks. When you come across such people make sure you keep a distance and try to deal with them calmly. Do not get over hyper as this is not going to be of any betterment or any good.
An Attentive one
When you notice someone that is taking up the acts of watching and listening to you both that is when a person gives you the signals of an Attentive Body Language. For example if someone is too lazy or is yawning it is crystal clear that they are not too attentive.
And an attentive body is truly a delightful one. You must be wondering how? For example you are going for a job interview; do remember that your attentiveness and your alertness is what will be judged. It's all about being smart there with your verbal skills that revel how attentive and confident you are.
Next one is the most flattering of all. A strong attentive body when it comes to your relationships and the intimacy part. It's too good to notice that someone is way to attentive to listen to what you are saying unlike the ones who are too ignorant.
Lets know how you can figure out if a person is just gazing at you or is truly listening to you. Here are the listed traits:- - The one who listens to you tends to concentrate on you unlike the one who's not listening - The listening one will blink their eye less often due to their focus on you unlike the non listeners who will just be too much blinking the eye and gazing for no reason.
- The one's listening certainly responds in a mimic way or a conversational way but the non listener will be more with the 'huh... Hmm' one's.
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